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Your letter should be done and you future is now ready to unfold right before your eyes. It is not only in your mind but written on a piece of paper. Writing down out dreams, goals, and visions has a very powerful effect; it reinforces the idea into our brain and our subconscious. You also have the option to going back and reading it as many time as you want. And this letter is probably in someone else’s hands. This brings us to the second thing on our list, accountability. Sometime it is so easy to give up on our self, but it really had to let others down.  You need to let one or more person now what your goal and dreams are. The more people you tell the better. On the bottom of each blog there is a comment box you can share with us you goal. Pure Luxe is a community of people just like you and me that have dream and goal that they want to achieve and will achieve.

There are many ways to help you stay focus. The More you do to stay focus on your dream the faster you’ll get to your destination.  As I have cover in previous blog post we have climate control that want to keep us comfy, and a red light goes on when you try to move from your comfort zone and the ANT are going to come out. But we want to reset the climate control, and we want to fight the ANTs. As you might know a habit is not changed overnight, it takes time, consistency, and patience.   A repetitive action that will become a new habit or your new believes and with that mixture the impossible will become possible.

So let get to work. The First I want you to do is write a letter to yourself this is your security letter.  This is the letter you will read when the ANTs come out, this is what will remind you of where you are going and why you are going there. In this letter you will write what you want, you have to be as specific as possible, write down as many details as you can.  Then you will explain why, this is very important, the why is what will drive you, it is your gas.  The last thing that I want you to do is think of the people in your life that are most important and you dream can directly affect. You will keep a copy and make a copy of this letter and give it to those people that your dream will affect directly, kids, husband, mother, etc.  And if you have someone that you always talk to or you can always trust, the one person you go to when times get rough, you can give them a copy. I wrote a letter similar to this when I start Beauty school part of our orientation was to write a letter to our self, I felt so good as I wrote the letter. I  feel like  I could never give up, and that if I ever wanted to what I wrote was so strong and powerful it would keep me motivated.  At the bottom we had to sing that if I ever feel like giving up my guidance counselor would bring this letter out to remind me why we had started this journey. I never gave up, and today I’m only months from accomplishing one of my biggest dreams. Giving this letter to the people that you care for will help them be aware of what your hopes and dreams are, they will be able to understand what you are doing and why and will understand any changes you make to your life to accomplish those dreams. So go straight to it, get to your letter if you don’t get to it now you probably never will. Stay tune to the following blog post where we will continue this process that will change your life.

Like I covered in my last blogs most people have goals and dream but lose track of them of they or are afraid of what it’s going to take to get there or they feel like it’s impossible so they just forget about it and do nothing about it. Today, we are going to do something about it!! I first you have to do is decided what you want. WHAT DO YOU WANT? What do you want for yourself? Where you like to be in ten years? What do you see yourself having, doing? I want you to image yourself having those things. Be as specific as possible. I want you to make a list of the things you want for yourself. There is probably something in that list that makes most of the other things possible. I want you to write that on the top of your list. Don’t worry about the how you are going to get what you want don’t think of anything as impossible. Today you are going to focus on WHAT YOU WANT and how you are going to keep it on your mind, your path, your destination. As the day go by ideas are going to start flowing in your mind and the how will show up. The key to getting what you want is Focusing on it. You want the thing or things that you want on your mind every day all day so that you work towards them.

I Know CHANGE is a big scary word for humans. Consciously or unconsciously every time we think of CHANGE or the unexpected we panic,we freak out. Why? We are like a thermostat that has been set at a certain degree, when the heat kicks in our natural reaction is to get the temperature back to the set point (our comfort zone).  Any changes  in our lives, whether is financial, emotional, health, anything that  causes doubt, fear, or anxiety will be picked up  by our brain as danger sign. Our natural instinct reacts to  keep is safe and comfy, bringing in the ANTs ( Automatic Negative Thoughts) , and try to adjust our thermostat to what ever it has been set to for years.  But where is being in your comfort zone getting you ? IT WILL NOT GET YOU ANY WHERE, other than WHERE WE ARE and where YOU HAVE BEEN!

This Blog is dedicated to  CHANGE, to bring out the best YOU that you can be. We will cover techniques to CHANGE, IMPROVE your mind set, MOTIVATE. Tip  to improve your physical appearance: from fitness, style, make up, hair. skin care. Everything you need to be where you want to be.

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